Forgiveness is hard to do. You cant just forgive people like that, it might take time for you to just think about something that happened. Some things are easier to forgive than others.
For example, my sister got mad at me for wearing her sweater with out asking. Now maybe a few hours later I forgave her. Now, I didn't forgive her for her. No, I forgave her for me. You see, forgiving people is more beneficial towards you than the other. There isn't a weight on your shoulders anymore of carrying that on you.
Another example, when i cam out to my dad as bisexual in quarantine (im pan now but whatever), he yelled at me and made that conversation about him. It took me months to forgive him for that. I found that it was tiring for me to carry the weight of being angry at him for…