okay so i came out to my friends in march as bi and still identify with this label. but i still think there’s a chance i might be straight? i’ve thought i was bi for so long now that that sounds like a foreign concept. whenever i see posts about like girls and stuff i’m not attracted to them like that (though men’s posts don’t really do that either tbh) but i have liked specific girls before. but it just has never given me that same rush as when i like a guy, like when your heart pounds. so knowing only that information kinda makes me feel straight. but here’s the thing: the idea of being in a relationship with a woman is very appealing to me. like, i want to marry a woman. i don’t really want to date a man. even when it comes to like sex and stuff being with a woman sounds so much better. but i just don’t feel super strongly attracted to women a lot? i’m not a very sexual person in the first place, i honestly very rarely have crushes (even on like celebrities), but i always think that there’s a chance i might be straight because i don’t relate to a lot of other wlw within the community. anyway. can somebody just like validate me and tell me that i’m bi or tell me that i’m probably straight lmao i’m struggling
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honey just kiss whomever you please. labels are just labels. be a bad bitch and don’t restrict yourself to them !
there is no need to pressure yourself to put a label on it! whatever you feel is valid!!!! you put that label of being bi or being straight whenever you feel comfortable.
honestly, you shouldn’t put a label on yourself if you’re not sure. labels can be harsh and pressuring to you. you like who you like. if a man and a woman stand next to each other, and you favor the man, then that means you only liked him because the woman wasn’t your type. same thing if it was the other way around. you aren’t sure on who it is that you identify as, and that’s okay. you favor the gender that appeals to your certain ideals. don’t put a label on it and just have fun <3