ok so this guy and i have been talking for a while, and we have this kind of relationship thingy... some people might call it “friends with benefits“. we live 5 hours away from each other, so it’ll be hard to actually be in a relationship with each other. anyways, he told me the other night that he does see me in his future, and he wants to be with me, it’s just that he can’t do long distance. so, what we have kind of decided on was to stay friends, and then in the future, when we’re more independent (cause i’m 15, he’s 16), we will become more than friends. but i’m just scared that while i’m not with him, he’s going to find someone better, and he’s going to pursue a relationship with that someone. i just really don’t want that to happen cause he’s the only guy i’ve ever been comfortable with. i just don’t know what to do at this point.
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hey . i was in the same situtaion and i’m not saying this happens to everyone but it happened to me , take the signs . every single one of them . i was dating this boy back in october 2018 , he moved away to a different state in january 2020 . we had a long distance relationship and it was going good . we broke up a few days before my birthday but we still kept contact . we were in fact friends with benefits . he still called me names and still said “i love you” but after a while i noticias he talked to my friends a lot . and now 3 months later i’ve realized that since december 2019 he talked to all my friends . he flirted with them and a lot other people . he said he loved me which i never believed . i tried cutting him off once and he cried so much and literally asked me out , he said he knew he had other choices but he wanted me . i told him no , i was way better then that . i blocked him about 2 weeks ago and it’s the best thing i’ve ever done . I’m better off and so are you . If anything is happening or your doubting him , either prove yourself wrong or say goodbye ....