i have this friend, more like acquaintance, he’s from my old school. my best friend is his ex friend. one day he added all of my social media and started being creepy. he’d talk to me daily and i’d respond to be polite. i guess he took this in a way that made him think i liked him. so he asked me out and i politely rejected his advances and explained i’d prefer if we remained friends, he respected that in the moment, then he started blaming my best friend for me rejecting him, which he played no part in. he nags me daily and when i don’t respond to his texts in a quick and timely manner (i don’t have my phone on me all the time) he freaks out and spams my phone, then contacts my FRIENDS AND FAMILY about my whereabouts. i’ve explained to him multiple times, i’m not interested, yet he doesn’t listen. the only thing stopping me from cutting him off completely is the fact he’s in a bad place mentally, and i’m afraid he’ll do something if i drop him. i’m afraid i’m being manipulated.
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