i’ve been struggling for some time trying to figure out whether i’m bi or not, or at least not straight. in the back of my head i always just convince myself i’m straight because that’s all i’ve known and then i don’t have to stress every minute of the day figuring out myself.
i dont know if i’m attracted to women or if they’re just attractive and i want to be like them because some days i can see myself ending up with a women but a majority of the time it’s men. i know i’m not afraid of coming out i guess my biggest fear is being wrong and confusing this attraction or whatever it is.
i also feel like many people figure this out long before my age now. i’m going into my senior year and i’m scared that if i don’t figure myself out soon that would somehow be wrong of me?
i just feel so alone and confused and i wish things were clearer. if anyone has any advice or even words of comfort i could really use it right now.
It’s ok to be confused, yes some people figure it out early but some don’t even far into adulthood. I’d also take your gender identity into consideration. Remember, bi means you can like two or more genders, pan means you’re gender blind. Or maybe your romantic attraction and sexual attraction could be different. It’s also ok to not like labels! Just “queer” works as well! 🏳️🌈