hey, this is my first time posting. it has a lot of different topics but i think it would be best to post here. a couple weeks ago, two of my best friends (c, j) outed me. i would stay up with them on facetime every night and we were always pretty close. then, one night, we were on houseparty. two boys from school, who are openly homophobic, joined. i quickly became uncomfortable, but my friends (a, n, s) wanted to "confront" them. i agreed to and we basically just talked to them. after that, the homophobes (sh, m) left the room and c went to join them. after a few minutes of me and my friends just talking, c joined back. she told us what happened. what i remember most is her telling them that m said "*my name* is so gay" and c responded with "true haha" when i heard her tell us this, my heart dropped. i dont know if she realized what she had done, but it was too late. sh and m had joined the call with me and everyone else at that point. when they joined, they started calling me a lesbo and f*g. they kept saying that i'll be going to hell for being bi. i immediately started sobbing and left the call. later, the homophobes told me that c and j outed me, and told them that i am bi. i couldn't believe it , and quickly made a group with my other friends (a, n, s) and told them what had happened. (this friend group is now broken up and i have lost almost all my friends) my friends starting immediately confronting c and j. i tried to keep away from the situation, since i was already crying and didnt know how much more i could take. after that, i went to sleep. when i woke up, i grabbed my phone and went to take a shower. while the shower was warming up, i looked through snapchat since i had so many notifications. a bunch of accounts that i didnt know with no bitmoji were messaging me. i later found out that these were c and j, and their friends / relatives. they were trying to find my address so that hey could harm me. they even asked my friend what my address is. at this point, i was crying so hard it hurt to breathe. i spent the next hour sobbing in the shower as i watched more insults and even death threats come in. i have since recovered, but in that time period, i did relapse. thankfully now have a therapist, who helps me with healthy coping mechanisms, but since that incident i have lost over 5 friends due to what happened in those two days. im scared. im scared they'll tell the school. im scared i'll get hurt. i live in the south and it is definitely not the most accepting place. *sorry about spelling / grammar errors.*