So I’m almost 14 and for the past few months my mom and I have been non-stop arguing. And used to I would do exactly what she said and didn’t argue because I was afraid of her. But now that I’ve gotten smarter and can think for myself and have my own opinions instead of her brainwashing me, like she does with my other siblings. An example is that her, along with other of my WHITE family members would say the n word. I personally never said it because I though it was just a bad word, I didn’t know the actual meaning. Until I downloaded tiktok and saw other peoples pov’s. I confronted her about it and told her that it was extremely rude and she talked about how I was an awful child for not respecting her. And I replied with “Why? Is it because I am holding you accountable for your words and actions unlike your other children“ (definitely recommend using this because she didn’t talk to me for the rest of the day as she was in shock at how I stood up for myself) And I will continue to do so when I believe she is being unreasonable. It has been very hard to do this over and over again and constantly fight. But it is getting better and I recommend doing this. However if you‘re older than 15 your parents may consider kicking you out so if they have threatened that before PLEASE DO NOT TRY THIS I DO NOT WANT ANYONE TO BE KICKED OUT and also note that you CANNOT BACK DOWN this takes a lot of guts and it’s very very difficult to constantly fight with someone. I have some more things to quote in different situations so reply to this if you need help with one. please be kind as I am writing this in hopes to help someone like me. ❤️
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