i was in a toxic relationship, and i mean really toxic. my friends used to tell me every single day that i should break up with them, and that they didnt love me. they (my ex) convinced me that my friends were bad and were trying to sabotage us, and that we were a perfect couple. this led to me saying hurtful and regretful things to my closest friends, and that caused our friend group to split. they both still have grudges on me, and blame me and my ex for the groups split. i mean, that is right, but i just wish they werent so mad at me. i didnt get gaslighted and manipulated on purpose? its not like i knew it was happening. i dont know. it hurts
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Hey. How are you? I hope you're doing well right now. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Just know that things get better. This isn't your fault. Your ex would say hurtful things and seemed manipulative and controlled you. Friends fight all the time and end up forgiving each other. If I were you, I would explain what has been happening and what you were going through. I would also try to ignore your ex as well no matter what. I hope this helps and if you want to talk more my snap is @infant.muffin and my tiktok is @rattedyourtatoullie. Have a wonderful day and stay safe :)
hey, i promise it will get better. they can not hold a grudge forever, the best advice i can give is have patience, slowly start talking more to them, apologize to them, i know it's not your fault that you were gaslighted and put in that situation but they might not understand that. if you need anybody to talk to or help, i'm here, i hope your relationship with them gets fixed. have a good day :)