When I was 7 or 8 I was in my older brothers room (he was 10 years older) and I would go in there often because we would talk. He used to sit in a chair and I would put my legs up and he was rub and massage them. One day he asked to see my private parts, I said no, but he kept asking and I kept saying no. he said if you show me yours I’ll show you mine. in the end I never showed him. I forgot about This until I was trying to figure out why I don’t want someone I’m romantically involved with to touch me... at least not a male partner. I can’t tell my parents bc it is not that bad but I also think he will get in a bunch of trouble and my family will ignore him completely. he was in jail for threatening My mom, and now he’s out and I can’t look at him without thinking about what he did. so I’m stuck with the aftermath of him inappropriately touching me and I can’t tell anyone.