Sometimes i wonder if the people in my friend group are my real friends. I only like to hang out with them because i’ve become attached. They didn’t invite me last time they hung out and when i found out they said i could come if i want but i feel like they only invited me because i found out and i feel like they didn’t want me to come. Don’t get me wrong i love them but sometimes i wonder where i fit in. They all bring something to the group and i’m just there. I cant talk about my problems with them because they’ll say they don’t care or they just won’t listen and i’m scared to tell them how i feel because i feel like they’ll make fun of me and i’m scared to wear different things for the same reason. Recently i tried bringing one of the things up and they all started arguing with me and saying i’m problematic. Sometimes i want to drop them but they’re the people i’m closest to.
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drop them. it’s the best decision you will ever make trust me. i was in your position once and i left and made new friends right away. i get that you might be scared, but that’s normal. you just have to trust your gut and be bold :).