So me and a friend stopped being friends because of a dumb fight that didn’t include me, and i became friends with the girl i sided with even though i didn’t know her, because she didn’t do anything wrong, and then three months go by, me and that same girl become close friends and then i tell the first girl that i missed her. let’s call her lily. so lily missed me too, and i wanted to become friends with her again. she asked me if i was still friends with the other girl, let’s call her poppy. so i said yes and lily wants me to stop being friends with poppy, but i want to be friends with both of them. i can’t leave poppy because she has almost nobody left for her and i don’t want her mental health to decline any more than it ha, but i want to be friends with lily too. lily keeps telling me that it'll be great if i drop poppy but i don’t want to. what do i do?
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If ur friend wants you to drop sm just like that she’s not a good friend and won’t hesitate to do it to you stick with poppy ✨
it seems to me that lily is being very toxic. if she makes you choose she’s not a real friend.
Hey! So I agree with the other comment, a real friend wouldn't really make you decide between her and another friend, would they? It does sound like Lily might be toxic and you se
hi! im not sure about the fight but if poppy didn't do anything and lily is telling you to drop her so that you two can be friends again then i kind of think she's being a bit toxic? if not then maybe see poppy's opinion on you two being friends without dropping her, i hope this helps a bit!