Hello- I’m not sure what to do. I am a lesbian, crushing on my best friend. She is bi, but closeted. I’m one of the only people who knows. Last week I confessed my feelings to her by making a tiktok to a girl in red song. We kissed. And we have been flirting ever since. We both are super into eachother. We have talked about our options. Since no one knows she is bi, our choices are a secret relationship or nothing. We could wait a while, but things may change and I do not want to lose her. We both agree we cannot ignore our feelings. I want to try a secret relationship but I’m terrified. It can be so draining. What would you do if you were in this situation?