All of this will sound superficial and to an extent it is, but I’ve just felt off with my best friend for a while now. It all started the beginning of the Summer when we just started to drift apart. Naturally, I reach out to her and explained my thoughts and concerns about how I’m a jealous person and so it’s hard to see her hang out with other people but I’m not mad about it. I told her I would work on that and I definitely have been trying to. I also explained that overall I just felt the vibes had shifted and she agreed. We talked it out and everything was fine. That was around two weeks ago. Now, everything isn’t fine. My best friend is talking to this one girl. Both my bff and I are juniors in high school, the girl she’s talking to is now a freshman in college. The girl was in our drama department at our school and we’re we’re all in the same friend group so that’s how they got close. My best friend is in a summer filling with this girl just for funzies because they both wanted to have a summer fling but they both know it’s going to end badly because the girl is leaving in 10 days. The girl also doesn’t know if she likes girls. Because of all of this, I don’t really like the girl because I know she’ll be hurting my friends heart once she leaves. But I also know my friend is a big girl and can make her on decisions. I just don’t understand how the girls is okay with knowing that she’ll be hurting my friend once she leaves. Anyways, a few days ago me and that girl got into a nasty argument which made me upset because it made my friend upset. She’s scared of choosing side so she stays neutral. I know she doesn’t want to lose either of us. How do I tell her that she already lost me? When reading this please keep in my that my best friend and I have been very close friends for two years now, she is the first person I tell about anything. She was one of the first people I had told about my father hitting me which was very hard to tell. It took me awhile to tell anyone. This girl had only been friends with her for about a year and they’ve only been messing around for a few months now. It feels like the taking no stance is really my friend saying that me and this girl mean the same to her even though that girl is leaving her in a week or so. Am I just asking too much? Like I don’t want my friend to drop her but my friend knew the argument had made me really upset. She also knew that her girl had made quite a few petty post about me. I think my friend had just stayed radio silent on the issue when it came to her girl. I don’t know what to do. I’ve started to distance myself with her. I’ve had so many friendships that have ended because I cared more than the other person. I don’t want to put myself through that pain again hence why I’m distancing myself. Overall, I feel lost.
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