hi so my story is a bit common ig. i have two best friends whom i love very much and i’ve known them for like 10 years! i recently met new online friends and we hit it off great! i talk to them a lot and i felt like they cared abt me genuinely. just today i was calling my irl friend and i just said a comment like “oh i’m getting a callfrom my friend.” my irl friend starting bashing me about how i always talk about them and i should just call them instrad. then she said that all my friends feel like that. which means they talked about me. i don’t know what to do
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It sounds like you care About your friends a lot, so I don’t think you should dump them, but I think you should talk to them about how you feel. I also think that you should try and understand the problem that they are having. It sounds like they feel like they are being replaced and you are moving on from them.
I understand what you’re coming from but I also understand your real life friends, first of all your real life friends should be happy that you’re also talking to other people. They shouldn’t bash on you for it, and if they are talking behind your back dump them, I’ve personally dealt with too many toxic and fake friends so don’t put yourself in a toxic relationship. And on the other hand your real life friends probably sad that you don’t talk to them as much, they probably miss talking to you. But you talk to whoever you wanna talk to, and what I recommend you do is tell your real life friends what’s the matter with me talking to my online friends, because if your real life friends have problems with that maybe you can try to find a way to make all your friends equal! Hope this helped you❤️