hi so i have a question but here’s my story first sorry if it’s long!
i have this friend lets just call her jessica cause i don’t wanna use real names. we’ve been friends for about 3-5 years and we’ve been really good. this year i told her i was being left out (with another friend) and we resolved it and we were on good terms! so a few months pass and my friend “jessica” has these online friends. they weren’t my friends and i didnt really know about them. one day the online friends friended me (roblox) and i didn’t put much thought . i asked “jessica” if it was that i was friends with them and she said ok... so one of the online friend has an admin game and so we all joined and we all got admin. so the other friend, let’s just name her “carly” in the admin game i kept switching “carlys” outfit and she told me to stop but i thought she as joking caus that’s what friends do so i didn’t. then “jessica” told me to stop and started flinging me and killing me. and i was like geez ok lol. also btw i didn’t say this before but if i join there games there like hey but when they’re online friends join shes like OMG HEYYY! and when i leave they hardly notice or say bye but when her online friends leave she’s like OMG NOO BYEE LYY. btw i’ve known “jessica“ longer than her online friends. anyways back to the story it’s a few weeks later and no one cares about the admin thing i thought we were over it. so i join the admin game again and i see that jessica’s in the server. but she unfrineded i didn’t know why so i asked her why did u unfriend me? she ignored me the whole time and it was really frustrating and i felt like i was going to cry. and i knew her chat wasnt lagging cause when her online friends talked she replied fast.
so my question:
is she toxic or is it just me?
and idk if i should drop her or not. we had so many plans together and i’m such a softie. anywas thank you for ur time bye
Hiii as a person that also has online friends I think both friends should be equally cherished. I think when you were switching clothes in the first game it may have made 'Carly' uncomfortable, but if you communicated with her I think this could be resolved. For 'Jessica' I think you should have a conversation with her because it could be a miscommunication or misconception who knows. If thats the case then it's fairly easy to solve. But if she is unwilling to talk or ignores you just drop her, shes not willing to communicate, and is showing she doesn't care so you shouldn't waste time waiting. Thats my opinion but you have said that you have been friends for a long time so I don't understand the full story, so take what resonates <33 wish you luck