hey guys. i’m in a situation where a guy i like (i mean really really like) who is seriously perfect for me, we want the same things now and in the future but the only issue is that he’s very anti feminist. which is heartbreaking. when i found out immediately i was angry because i really didn’t see it coming. i broke up with him but he said he’s gonna take me back if i apologise. but he also said i ‘f*cked up the relationship because i was a feminist’ i don’t know wether to apologise because i think other than that he’s perfect. and everyone has flaws right?
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Yes, everyone has flaws but this seems like something that might have to be a deal breaker. First I would talk to him to make sure he knows what a feminist actually is. Many guys for some reason think that feminism is saying that women are better than men, which obviously isn't true. Explain to him that feminism is just women wanting and deserving equal rights and treatment. If he doesn't agree that you should be equal to him then I think you should stay away. He clearly cannot respect you if that is the case.