I have diagnosed anxiety and depression as well as aspergers. As much as I don't want my diagnoses to define me, they really affect me on the daily. Every day I worry about if my girlfriend is mad at me or if I did something wrong, even though there is nothing to indicate that. I read into everything and over analyze small details that don't matter at all. Even if someone texts me slightly different I get really upset about it and I hate it. I am so afraid of losing her that I need lots of love and reassurance to calm my anxiety. I feel like I'm a burden for being selfish like this, I am a very affectionate person and she doesn't return it just as much but I know that she loves me so much and its just my brain tricking me into thinking she doesn't. I know this but I can't help but thinking I did something wrong. Please help,,,,,,,
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tell her in the way u feel most comfortable to! u can talk to her in person, over the phone, through text, a letter, etc ? it's very important to let her know that stuff, so she can help make ur relationship the best it can be. i can't imagine how hard it is to open up like that, but she loves u, and u opening up to her doesnt change anything about who u are and who u have been. it just lets her know more info about u, so that it's a good relationship. and wanting reassurance about someone's love isn't selfish whatsoever !