so basically im entering my junior year of highschool and i have never ever had a bf or a gf (im bi) and i get told a lot "you're young it doesnt matter blah blah" but to me it does. i feel like im wasting my teen years by missing all my firsts. it's not like i havent had the opportunity, but part of me is SO scared of any type of affection bc i feel like i'd be judged for it. i dont know what to do anymore bc half of me rlly wants a bf and the other is scared and disgusted by that stuff. i also have a sorta strict and protective mom so i have no idea how she'd react to it , if she'd try to read our messages or keep me from hanging out with him so i also feel like there's no point. it also brings down my self confidence a lot bc it makes me feel like everyone thinks im ugly and doesnt want to date me. sometimes i feel like such garbage for that. idk what else to put soo yea.
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Hi! I feel the same! I’ve felt extra alone lately during quarantine but some advice I have is that sometimes it’s better to be patient. I think this because I think waiting to meet your soulmate is more worth it than dating a bunch of random people. Sometimes it’s better for your first to be your only. And no you are not ugly! You were made beautiful how you are and if a boy or girl can’t see that they are just not the one! Hope it’s helps <3