hi everyone. i’m bisexual. my entire family is super homophobic. my brothers have always known i support the lgbtq+ community. they don’t know that i’m part of the community. one of my brothers straight up told me that i’d get disowned if i tell my parents that i support the community. he’s the same one that constantly says how much he hates members of the lgbtq community. i came out as bi by accident on twitter. luckily i don’t know anyone there in person. i also willingly came out to my close friends list on instagram. i made it very clear that they couldn’t tell anyone. i’m really scared because if my family ever comes to find out about my sexuality, they’d literally kick me out and not even care that i’m their daughter. i’m lucky that they don’t go through my phone or else i wouldn’t even be living in my house right now. i’m just really scared for the future. strangers and my closest friends know about my sexuality, but the people i love the most don’t. it saddens me a bit, but it is what it is. i know that my family will never support this, but i’m okay with that. i won’t tell them until i move out so that i don‘t become homeless. thank you for reading this if you read it💞
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I'd just always watch out for your safety and try to make sure you always have a friend you can go to if something becomes unsafe. I'd also try to identify family friends or neighbors that are lgbtq friendly that you can go to if something happens. Whatever happens remember you've got this and there is no reason to be ashamed for being bi!