First off, I’m a girl. I’ve recently started to accept myself as being bisexual, but I haven’t told anyone yet. One of my closest friends is a lesbian. Our relationship as friends never changed after she came out to me. However, when I still considered myself to be straight there was a day when I thought about us being together. I quickly pushed it out of my mind and told myself I was crazy. I guess it was just internalized homophobia. Looking back on the nature of our relationship and interactions that we had, I’ve started to realize that she may have had feelings for me. I can’t be certain that she liked me that way, but I keep thinking about her lately. I just want to hug her and I want her to know how much I love her. The biggest issue is that I texted her a while ago, but she never responded. I haven’t seen her I months and I’m scared she hates me. Idk why she would hate me but it tears me to pieces imagining that she does.
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Hey, love. I'm sorry that you're scared. However, making assumptions isn't a great way to go. Trust me when I say that information is always better from the source rather than yourself. Why would she hate you? If you can't come up with a reasonable answer, then she doesn't. Contact her again, maybe try calling her or seeing her in person. Maybe she's going through something right now. Remember to keep an open, understanding heart but be prepared to have to fight for what you want. Love is a battlefield, but you've gotta know if it's worth it to you.