I don’t know how to start stuff so here I go. My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for two months now, and I don’t know how to cope with it. I miss him so much. I’m still in love with him. We’re still in contact but barely. I haven’t even thought of being with another person while he’s over there posting about simping for multiple girls that he is talking to. It hurts so deeply that I can’t move on and it seems like he isn’t having a hard time at all. My friends hate him(because he was really toxic and he cheated on me). I might look and sound like a clown after sharing that but it’s the truth and I don’t know why I am in love with someone who treats me badly. Even as “friends” he treats me horribly. I cry so much, I’m just in so much pain. My heart physically hurts, I know it will kill me if he gets into another relationship. So how do I get over him even though I am still in love?
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I don’t know if I can really say anything because I have never been in a relationship before, but i know lots of people who feel the same way... this may sound really generic and overused but to “ get over” someone you need to find your self worth, how much you mean to you. See if having your ex out of your life will make you feel better about yourself. If some guy is toxic and doesn’t value you and takes you for granted, he doesn’t deserve you. You may still feel in love with him, but remember it takes time to move on and find yourself or your real soulmate. Take it slow, day by day, you will slowly recognize who you are and who you can be. One day you will be happy so stay strong. Toxic and manipulative people aren’t worth your time. You deserve to be happy and to feel loved. no Matter has harsh the night is, morning always comes.
look, what i have learned is that you cant control who you love. please know that even if nobody is, i am on your side, you are not a clown for sharing this. it is not your fault. please remember that.