So I'm starting to think my family is toxic or something because they are trying to brainwash/manipulate us/others like ex. My dad was talking to a POC and he was talking about BLM (which I fully support) "we shouldn't have destroyed our economy for this George Floyd 'thing' especially with the curve going down." and I understand that I guess even though innocent people are dying for their skin colour? Anyways not the point right now. They also say things like the r-slur and once I tell them to stop they tell me "There's nothing wrong with it." or "In this household, we say it so it is okay." and I'm actually currently grounded to try and seek help. so here I am venting on this website without them knowing.
I can list more stuff if you'd like but this is just at the top of my head.
all right, i'll email you. :) thank you.
I get how u feel. It's like sometimes parents dont know how much what they say/do affects us. My dad calls me a dumba**, ret*rd, lazy, bumb, brainless (there's more) just bc I don't understand what he's telling me sometimes, and i don't think he understands how much it hurts but I don't like showing my feelings so I don't rly say anything. But I think it might be bc of the way our parents were raised. And if you wanna talk heres my email sophia.g9473@gmail.com :)